“Jay is the kind of man people instinctively trust. That’s because he lives what he embodies. He brings presence and possibility into every space he enters, holding both steady ground and high standards.

Here’s the secret to Jay’s superpower: he knows that the pause between what was and what’s coming next is sacred space. Jay holds that threshold with uncommon wisdom and deep compassion. He has an intuitive understanding of the complexities, challenges, and rewards born from transition. Jay walks boldly alongside his clients as these moments become the launchpad for lasting growth.

As the go-to Business, Life and Leadership Coach of the Home Builders Association of Greater Kansas City, Jay has a long track record of helping both established and emerging leaders build businesses and lives aligned with their values. Jay doesn’t just inspire action. He equips his clients with the tools, strategies, and confidence to excel.

Jay’s ability to guide countless leaders through growth comes from the steady foundation of his own life. As a devoted husband and father, he knows that true leadership begins at home. Jay’s faith shapes every part of his work, anchoring him in integrity, humility, and purpose.

Whether he’s coaching one-on-one or leading groups, Jay is deeply invested in the people he serves. Entire communities are stronger because of his impact. If you have the good fortune of working with Jay, you’ll quickly discover why.”

Amber Shirley, High-Performance Coach for Creative Entrepreneurs, Founder of The Created Life AND Jay’s Coach

“Working with Jay as my coach for over six months was nothing short of transformative. From day one, he conducted a deep and thoughtful diagnostic that illuminated the areas of my life most in need of growth. From there, he didn’t just hand me tools, he equipped me with a full arsenal: powerful books, thought-provoking worksheets, and timely check-ins that always seemed to arrive exactly when I needed them.

What set Jay apart was not just his method, but his presence. He is generous, relentlessly insightful, and has an uncanny ability to challenge you in ways that feel both supportive and galvanizing. Our work together elevated my self-understanding, sharpened my leadership, and deepened my role as a father.

To put it simply: Jay doesn’t just coach, he catalyzes transformation.”

Tom Vansaghi, PhD, Managing Director, Midwest Center for Nonprofit Leadership-University of Missouri Kansas City

“Jay has profoundly influenced the way I think about leadership. One of the most powerful lessons I’ve learned from him is the connection between thoughts, words, and actions. Understanding that my internal dialogue shapes how I communicate—and ultimately how I lead—has made me far more intentional in how I approach challenges. This mindset shift hasn’t just improved my personal effectiveness; it’s had a ripple effect on our team culture, fostering greater clarity, empathy, and collaboration. Jay’s guidance has truly elevated my leadership journey.”

Kari English, Vice President, Communications & Strategy, Home Builders Association of Greater Kansas City

"Through my work with Jay, I was able to align my office vision with my core values. Those values have become the foundation for every process in our office, starting with my own leadership and carried forward by my entire team. I was able to make sure my business embodies my vision. Establishing clear values has created clarity of expectations for myself and those around me, ensuring alignment and purpose in everything we do.”

Dr. Trey Hilt, Hilt Chiropractic & Acupuncture

"In a recent conversation with a business colleague who knew I was working with Jay, they asked, 'When are you meeting with your coach again?'  My response was, 'not soon enough!'"

Greg Kudrna, President of Henges Insulation & Fireplaces